Maithili Wedding Traditions

मैथिली विवाह परंपरा

Culture, rituals, music and community — each ceremony rooted in ancient tradition.

Pre-Wedding Rituals

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Step 1

Swayamvar / Lagan Patrika

लगन पत्रिका

The formal exchange of horoscopes and setting of the wedding date. The priest prepares the Lagan Patrika (wedding invitation).

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Step 2

Tilak Ceremony

तिलक

The groom's family sends gifts to the bride's side. Includes jewelry, sweets (Tilakhari) and traditional items.

Wedding Day Rituals

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Step 3

Maur Pahan

मौर पहन

The groom wears the sacred crown (Maur) made of banana stem. A key ritual of Maithili weddings.

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Step 4

Vivah Mandap

विवाह मंडप

The sacred marriage ceremony under the mandap with Vedic rituals, seven vows (Saptapadi) and sacred fire.

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Step 5

Kohbar Ghar

कोहबर घर

The bridal room decorated with Mithila paintings (Kohbar art). The couple meets here after the ceremony.

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Step 6

Saptapadi

सप्तपदी

The seven sacred steps taken together symbolizing seven vows of marriage in Maithili tradition.

Arrival Rituals

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Step 7

Dwarpooja

द्वारपूजा

The bride's arrival at the groom's house, welcomed with Aarti. The bride steps into her new home.

Post-Wedding Rituals

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Step 8

Chauthari

चौथारी

Celebrations on the 4th day, with songs, games and the final bidaai of the bride from her natal home.

🎵 Maithili Wedding Songs

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Sohag Geet

Songs of good fortune sung by women at the wedding

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Vivah Geet

Traditional wedding songs in Maithili dialect

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Bidaai Geet

Emotional farewell songs as the bride leaves her home

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Jymaar

Songs sung during the Kohbar ceremony